Dreamer by Day. Gamer by Nite.

so 2day was been a chill day.

got 2 talk with my moh, which was nice. we talked a lil bit abt everything. brainstormed some ideas for the bridal shower and bachelorette party. then she called me later and found the shoes i want everyone 2 wear, on sale. so i ordered 2 pairs, since they didn’t have anyone elses size. but J wanted 2 try them on at a store, just 2 make sure she got the right size. i know she doesn’t care for them, so i asked her if she still didn’t like them, and she said, honestly no. that they are not feminine at all, they have a RUN DMC feel and are hella wide. but that she loves me and she’s gonna wear them. she’s just gonna make me wear stilettos for her big day. so i asked her if that’s how we were gonna play it. we have different styles, thats all, and like a good sis and moh, imma wear wut she wants. i know i can’t please anyone. but i still love what i picked, and it’s only for a day(and not even for a full day, since our event is only 5 hours..lol) i did learn( and maybe i knew already, but i don’t remember, but Js wedding(if it actually happens) is gonna be 25k. omG…wft!! but luckily the reception is getting paid for by the grooms mom, so they only have 2 come up with 10k…but still. 2 each is own i guess.

2 weeks and everyone will be here. and i’m excited. everyone will meet and hopefully get along. all my friends are very different and have different likes and dislikes and tastes. and you put 5 women together…this will be interesting. but i’m sure it’ll be fine and fun. i can’t wait.

met with a videographer last night, very cool and laid back and understands what we want on our special day. imma see if he can customize a package, but im set on wanting him 2 video our wedding. by far the best deal I have found, and 2 cameras 2 boot:o)

now im working on a dj, another great deal find. i’ll meet him next week to sign a contract. 

then after that, the major vendors, then it’s time to figure decorations and flowers and stuff. 

but of course i have 2 really figure our my comic con costume. i finally got the clothes for it, now i just have 2 either dye them myself or go 2 a pro. look for a tool belt, goggles, work on my ears. wow, i still got a lot of stuff to do, but now i have direction than i had before….so im excited and hopefully my costume is not a complete fail.

to easily attain some progress. since these are all things that challenge me. i figured i’d do 3, since i didn’t wanna be a pussy and only do 1 or 2…lol. so starting from Monday thru 2 Sunday im going 2:

1. Drink a minimum of 2 bottles of water a day( i LOATHE the taste of water. & 4 all of u who don’t think water has a taste, it does…and I don’t fancy it. but more water in my day 2 day is much needed, even if its against my wishes…lol)
2. Go 2 sleep no later than midnight( i’m a nite owl, always have been, and I know its supposed 2 be better 4 you, health-wise, but i’d rather browse on the web or watch Netflix….heheee. of course i was informed that i’m breaking my own rules on my 1st day, since it’s after midnight, but midnight on Monday(and yes i know it’s considered Monday), but its still considered Sundays sleep not Mondays sleep), and on sunday, which will be my last day for my goal, i’m going 2 sleep no later than midnight:o))
3. Wake up no later than 8am( i try 2 get up early so that way, if i’m walking or jogging, I can  beat the heat and/or sun outside, but sometimes, I’ll wake up 9 or 10, and i’ll either still make it a point 2 get out there or just exercise indoors. i can’t deal with heat, too much and i get a migraine. plus, i’ll get more of my day 2 do whatever it is i need 2 do.)

Go Me!! :o)